Sex after tummy tuck...did you do it before 3 weeks?? ;)

So ladies, this question is a bit personal,but then again so are a lot of things on this site. I have the unfortunate timing of my boyfriend being in japan during my surgery,he will be back about day 3 PO. He'll have been gone about 12 days total. Im already "in the mood" but i know i'm obviously going to be put in a different mindset after my TT tomorrow. However, I'm thinking after the drains are out in a week,i'm gonna be dying!!! Does any one have experiences or advice? I was thinking bending over/doggy or sidelying would be ok for comfort and no strain on the site....obviously nothing crazy,just slow and careful. sorry if this is TMI lol but im curious!!<3