I had my BR/BL and TTsurgery May 2. We have talked and planned for this for three years! My recovery was going very well, but my Dr in post-ops continued to remind me to sit still. I didn't and my husband was also on a business trip my second week of recovery. I busted one of my incision sites and nearly had to go back into the OR. Luckily the bleeding bas stopped. The Dr was stern and told me to sit down, do nothing or risk the recovery and all the investment we just made. My husband is over helping with our (5 and 3 yr olds) and making meals, doing bedtime etc. I dont want to risk.bleeding again. Is anyone in a similar boat? I am.grateful for all.his help and understand that he is growing weary....but we just keep fighting and he is very resentful of all the "downtime" I have had. Any advice???