I'm keen to get a TT and BA but the only thing stopping me are my gorgeous, needy, heavy kids! By the time I'll be ready my youngest will be 1 and I have a 5 year old too. Unfortunately I don't have family that can help, although my hubby has said he could take 1 week off work to help. So if you've had a TT and BA, and had young kids at the time with no family help to call on, how have you managed caring for them?