How do I explain my surgeries to 5 year old? What am I going to tell her about my cut/recovery/drains and why my boobs are bigger? Or the fact that I have to wear a girdle or that I can't walk for a couple weeks? I'm starting to freak out. My body is going to change and I'm not sure how to even explain this to her. I'm gonna be in pain, & I'll prob. cry. I'm starting to feel a little sad that this could affect her own self esteem in the future. Need your advice and support!