Do you have unsupportive family?

So I'm 3 days post op from my tt. I've been staying at my moms house and she's been taking very good care of me and my two children. My husband did take the kids for the weekend but since he can't take any time off of work I've decided to stay here to get the support it I need. She's been awesome but some of my other family members haven't been so supportive. I feel like I'm being made to feel like what I did was selfish. The one that I really hate is when they tell me "so many other woman are bigger than you" or "you're so much better off than some women". I totally acknowledge the fact that I am smaller but I also worked really hard to lose all the baby weight and so I wanted the tummy tuck to just top it all off. I just think it's unfair when other people try and make me feel like I made a bad decision or when they're so quick to judge me for doing this.