My husband and I have been married 45 years and have a good relationship. But age and vaginal births have taken their toll. Keagle exercises are no longer effective. Wanting to continue a good physical relationship, I've decided to do something about this. To my RealSelf cyber friends who are kind enough to share their experiences, Thank you so much. You are such a help to me in my research.I'm in the process of narrowing down a talented surgeon Who is respectful and not patronizing.I would appreciate any input from the RealSelf community. Thank you so much in advance.