The surgery is not pleasant. I'm reading stories of people returning to work 3 days afterwards,that was not my story. Maybe it's because they're 20 and I'm 40. Then again if youre 20 why would you need it. I had no desire to do anything but go to the bathroom and come back and lay down in my bed for two weeks. The first week I had to have someone help lift me out of the bed because I felt like I was tearing myself apart. Recovery is different for everyone. You should be prepared for that and not be coaxed into thinking you'll be doing Kip Up Parkour in a week while waiting for a 6-week mark to have virginal sex. If someone even utters the word sex to me I am going to ninja chop them in the neck. The molecular structure of a woman is most delicate in that area a full recovery is needed to make sure you're not injuring the fibers that only we possess to cradle human life. The things women go through. Best of luck.